This crush is becoming a serious problem. It's embarrassing enough to admit being a fan of the show The Bachelorette, let alone having an honest crush on one of these guys. If Emily doesn't choose Jef then: 1. She is making a huge mistake, and 2. I am considering leaving my husband and moving to Utah in search of him. Sorry Ryan. Utah is insanely beautiful, I used to skateboard a little and it would pretty much be my dream job to work for his company. I do study environmental studies after all, and I have always had a little bit of a thing for younger guys. Really we would make a perfect couple. It's not that crazy. Men love stalkers right?